Phase of Relationship

One day I came along with this video in youtube about relationships, I know some of you might seen this before and I am obviously a bit outdated, so below is the video. I remember some times ago many people posted it in Facebook but I don't really bother to watch, and I am not sure what caught me watching it today but it is pretty true and interesting. 

It is about many phases of a relationship. And I believe who has been in a relationship before can relate to it.

Honestly, I think that being in a relationship is a risky business because you wouldn't know if your partner would hurt you in the end, dump you away for another person then give you ton of excuses, or hurt you until you wanna die. Who knows? Off course everyone acts very romantically, putting the smile on the face whenever they see you, hiding their true self, give you whatever you want in the very beginning of the relationship. Okay, I mean most of people, not all. The reason I say act is because all these only last for a while, not a long term actions. The funny thing is, we always used to spend time talking on the phone during odd hours not wanting to hang up; ended up with only 2minutes call with "ok, ya, alright, goodnight, bye." No more I love you, sweet dream, I miss you, sleep tight anymore.

Ironically we used to text each other everyday almost every hour then ended up your partner telling you don't text so much anymore, very annoying, I have better things to do than texting. Its pretty hurt, but we can still bear with it because there's this part called toleration. Sometimes, is not because they don't love you anymore, but they just want to be how they used to be.

I think tolerating and understanding is the hardest part to deal with in a relationship in fact that many couples end up breaking up because they think both of them are lack of understanding. And in many types of situations, the more understanding we are, our partner tend to gets more advantages. It's sad but its true. Anyway, I believe everyone has their own level of toleration. And frankly I think toleration has no its own limit, is just something that we set our own. Ok I think I've talk too much craps now and I'm not sure what am i talking about right now (moodless at the moment) so sorry for wasting your precious time reading all these T_T. 

Seriously need a break I will come back with some proper entry that make sense :)